how do i use conversational hypnosis on pearents?
i know it sounds preety stupid,
but i need to learn how to convince my pearents to unground me from piercing my lip. theyre very strict, and right now im grounded for atleast 2 months and a half. please tell me exactly how to get out of this situation with conversational hypnosis it is very important.
Hi,
David is absolutely right - it takes quite a long time to master conversational hypnosis (I’m also a hypnotherapist), and whilst it can be used to influence people subconsciously, it won’t allow you to get your parents to reverse their grounding if they really don’t want to.
If your parents are as strict as you describe, then I’m not surprised they’ve grounded you for piercing your lip - so you can either dig your heels in and stay grounded (and thus save face), or you can adopt a more controlled and mature approach and start talking to them about this. Perhaps, explain what the piercing means to you and why you had it done, and allow them to voice their opinions of how they see it. In the end, you might just agree to disagree, that is fine, but do so without raised voices and accusations - you should each listen to the others view and at least understand them. This is not you performing conversational hypnosis - but it is you adopting control of the situation and this allows you to influence the outcome. Try also a bit of negotiation - try understanding and accepting their views and telling them so - you’ll be surprised how this often causes people to modify a course of action - don’t demand something as that causes instant resistance - try suggesting a compromise or two and show some genuine understanding.
Hope this helps - hope you get ungrounded soon - and perhaps next time why not talk through something like this with your parents first - open communication is how it should be and it will work to your benefit!
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David said :
September 12, 2009 at 4:13 pm
Takes a long time to master the art of conversational hypnosis, around six months. Also it is not something you can use to influence a person beyond what they would want to be.
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The Catalyst said :
September 12, 2009 at 5:00 pm
Hi,
David is absolutely right - it takes quite a long time to master conversational hypnosis (I’m also a hypnotherapist), and whilst it can be used to influence people subconsciously, it won’t allow you to get your parents to reverse their grounding if they really don’t want to.
If your parents are as strict as you describe, then I’m not surprised they’ve grounded you for piercing your lip - so you can either dig your heels in and stay grounded (and thus save face), or you can adopt a more controlled and mature approach and start talking to them about this. Perhaps, explain what the piercing means to you and why you had it done, and allow them to voice their opinions of how they see it. In the end, you might just agree to disagree, that is fine, but do so without raised voices and accusations - you should each listen to the others view and at least understand them. This is not you performing conversational hypnosis - but it is you adopting control of the situation and this allows you to influence the outcome. Try also a bit of negotiation - try understanding and accepting their views and telling them so - you’ll be surprised how this often causes people to modify a course of action - don’t demand something as that causes instant resistance - try suggesting a compromise or two and show some genuine understanding.
Hope this helps - hope you get ungrounded soon - and perhaps next time why not talk through something like this with your parents first - open communication is how it should be and it will work to your benefit!
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Tom R said :
September 12, 2009 at 5:05 pm
I know you think that the piercing is wonderful ,but why ? over a period of time it will most probably result in gum and tooth damage, You can bet as the hole loosens that spit will run down your chin and unless you purchased good (18K or better ) gold or surgical grade stainless steel the skin around the hole will turn dark green or black in all a wonderful addition to your smile.
Name one -just one of the big name models, the people who make the big money who have piercings???
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